Kalsoom Baloch Love Marriage Case ...

Kalsoom Baloch Love Marriage Issue

Chief Justice Lahore High Court has released the Kalsoom Baloch, his husband and her husband’s relatives and have declared that Kalsoom is free and can go anywhere. This is yet another not-so-uncommon sight in the Pakistan and this case once again highlights a very burning issue.

Kalsoom Baloch tied love bond in marriage with Fazal Abbass and went with him. Parents of Kalsoom were furious and very angry and they filed a case against Fazal and alleged that Fazal had abducted their daughter. Police arrested Fazal and his relatives and also the girl. Upon girl’s statements that she went with Fazal at will, court released all of them. Now Kalsoom says that her life is at risk from her parents.

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Now this is a very contentious issue. What is your take on the following questions:

1.Love Marriage allowed in Islam?
2.Eloping of Girls for marriage is right, or they should remain at their homes and fight for their love marriage?
3.Who should be more important for the girl; Lover or Parents?

Do Parents Have A Right To Choose Their Child's Marriage Partner?

Do Parents Have A Right To Choose Their Child's Marriage Partner?

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Praise be to Allah.

The basic principle is that one of the conditions of marriage is the consent of both parties, because of the hadeeth of Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) which says that the Prophet SAW said: “A virgin cannot be married until her consent has been sought and a previously-married woman cannot be married until she has been consulted.” They said, “O Messenger of Allaah, what is her consent?” He said, “If she remains silent.”
(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 5136; Muslim, 1419)

Consent is essential in the case of the husband, and also in the case of the wife. The parents have no right to force their son or their daughter to marry someone they do not want.

But if the person whom the parents have chosen is righteous, then the child, whether male or female, should obey the parents in that, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If there comes to you one with whose religious commitment and character you are pleased, then marry (your daughter) to him.” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 1084; Ibn Maajah, 1967. Classed as hasan by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi, 865).

But if obeying them will lead to divorce later on, then the child does not have to obey them in that, because consent is the foundation of the marital relationship, and this consent must be in accordance with sharee’ah, which is approval of the one who is religiously committed and of good character.
Shaykh Dr. Khaalid al-Mushayqih

A child is not considered to be disobedient or sinful if he does not obey his parents in this regard.

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah said:
The parents do not have the right to force their child to marry someone whom he does not want, and if he refuses he is not being disobedient towards them, as is the case when he does not eat what he does not want.

Al-Ikhtiyaaraat, 344.

Is Stress in a Woman’s Nature?

Is Stress in a Woman’s Nature?
by: James Pendergraft

Women, by nature, are more susceptible to becoming stressed. This is because of the many hormonal changes that they go through during their whole lifetime. The fluctuation of the hormonal levels of women consistently occurs during puberty, the menstrual period, gestation or pregnancy, and during menopause. This fluctuation of hormones is known to cause stress.

Women Are Caretakers

Women are also known to be the caretakers of other people. They care for the children and men as well as for the friends and family that are within their circle. Because of this role, they tend to forget to take care of their own bodies. As stress is known to bring on adverse effects on the physical aspect of women’s lives, it is advisable for them to have stress relievers so that their bodies and souls can be nurtured.

Women Have Special Needs

Basically, women have special needs when it comes to relieving their stress and taking on a healthier lifestyle. Because it is their nature to be stressed in different situations in their lives, then they also need to do a great number of things to get rid of stress.

If you are a woman who is under a lot of stress, it is best to address this at the soonest time possible. Because stress is inherent in a woman’s nature because of the hormonal changes that they go through, then a conscious effort should be made to avoid stress as much as possible.

Lessening Stress in Women

There are a number of things that can be done to address the needs of women when it comes to getting relief from stress. First, they need the social support that family and friends can give them. They need a lending hand and a supportive ear in times of trouble. Research shows that women who have strong support from friends and other family members tend to be less stressed as well as happier and healthier. As women tend to get more stressed, being a part of a social network and sharing feelings are very important for them.

Other Stress Relievers

Here are other stress relievers that can be done by women during their daily life:

* Spa Treatments. It does not matter if you will set up your own spa experience at home or go to a spa club, getting a dose of body pampering is a great way to get rid of stress. This will leave you feeling calmer, relaxed, refreshed, and beautiful inside and out.

* Exercise. Going out and being more active brings on a great deal of benefits on the beauty, health, and stress management factors in women’s lives. The chance to enjoy new surroundings could take your worries of your mind, thus reducing or even eliminating stress.

* Eating Healthy. A well-balanced diet as well as good nutrition is not just good for shedding pounds, it also packs on more energy to the body thus causing women to have a clearer sense of thinking. This could help them in reacting in an even-tempered manner when it comes to stress.

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A Story that touches your heart ! A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year-old son waiting for him at the door... Son: "Daddy, may I ask you a question" Daddy: "Yeah sure, what it is?" Son: "Dad, how much do you make an hour" Daddy: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?" Son: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?" Daddy: "I make Rs. 500 an hour" "Oh", the little boy replied, with his head down. Looking up, he said, "Dad, may I please borrow Rs. 300?" The father was furious, "if the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or other nonsense, then march yourself to your room and go to bed. Think why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior"The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door. The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: "May be there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs. 300 and he really didn't ask for money very often!"The man went to the door of little boy's room and opened the door. "Are you asleep, son?" He asked. "No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy."I've been thinking, may be I was too hard on you earlier", said the man, "It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the Rs.300 you asked for" The little boy sat straight up, smiling "oh thank you dad!" He yelled.Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled some crippled up notes.The man, seeing that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, then looked up at his father."Why do you want money if you already had some?" the father grumbled. "Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy replied."Daddy I have Rs. 500 now. Can I buy an hour of your time?Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you" MORAL It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family....